I have a confession to make. I haven’t been shooting my YouTube videos because I am currently in a BDD episode. For those of you who may not know, the Mayo Clinic defines BDD as a mental health condition with symptoms that are either minor and non-harming or flaws that are made up. These flaws can be so distressing for people suffering from this condition that they often spend most of their time looking at their bodies in disgust, or they focus on finding treatments for their problems.
For example, my current BDD episode was triggered when I went to the orthodontist to get new retainers and the technician told me my teeth had shifted slightly. The technician said that teeth naturally shift and that I still had a pretty smile. But later that afternoon when I looked in the mirror, I saw the crooked teeth I had as a teenager before I had braces.
It also reminded me of the days when I was in middle school when my classmates and I would dance in a large circle at recess. One day they made fun of me by calling me “monster and dirty” because my teeth were stained and crooked. They continued to tease me by saying, “Amanda has dirty teeth and never goes to the dentist.” Their taunts made me feel very self-conscious about my teeth. The truth of the matter was my mother was too poor at that time to afford to take me to the dentist.
It’s not just my smile, however, that brings on a BDD flare; it’s also my weight. Even though I only weigh 115 pounds on average, I still see myself as fat. I see chubby cheeks, chubby arms and a rounded belly that sticks out from behind my top.
One way people with BDD fix this flaw, according to the Mayo Clinic, is to buy bigger clothes.
When I am in a BDD episode like this, I don’t like to leave the house because I am afraid people will think I’m ugly.
But when I do go out, my friends sometimes take me clothes shopping. I tend to buy clothes that are a size larger than what I normally wear. After picking something out, my friends say, “Amanda, you’re not that big. Your pants look way too baggy on you. Stop buying baggy clothes.”
My friends often beg me to buy leggings that are tight so that they will show off my figure. When I come out of the dressing room, I often say, “This doesn’t fit. It’s too tight.” Then, my friends will say, “Well, shoot, you’re so small. I thought you could fit into that.” Then, I go back and pick out baggy clothes. This is one of the classic symptoms to help fix the flaw, according to the Mayo Clinic.
So for now, as I attempt to get back to shooting YouTube videos, all I see in the viewfinder is the flaws of a person with crooked teeth, chubby cheeks, chubby arms, and a fat stomach protruding from baggy clothes staring back at me. Until I stop believing those lies, and start shooting YouTube videos again, I won’t be able to see the healthy and beautiful person that people say I am.
2 thoughts on “How my eating disorder fed off my Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) (Part 3)”
very sad how Bullies made fun/jokes about you .ANY DISABILITY GETS THIS .there views/judgements are very
Snotty Nosed .. i have very bad Hayfever people call me Snot-Face i have BOTH Bladder/Bowel problems people
have called me Piss-Pot list goes on YOU DO VERY WELL ,more you take notice .MORE IT WILL EFFECT YOU
very well done for talking about it and talking about ANOREXIC FOOD ISSUES
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Thanks for sharing information about BDD. It’s sounds like a very complicated condition. Glad to have learned something new.